May

If you were born in May, your insecurities commonly get the best of you. You stay up all night, overthinking, because you’re worried that you said something that upset a family member or friend. That you are accidentally pushing away the people who are closest to you, or that you made some sort of mistake that is going to result in you losing your job. You are always panicked that your decisions were the wrong decisions, that you made some horrible mistake that is going to ruin everything. But you need to remember, no one is being as hard on you as you’re being on yourself. Even if you did make some tiny missteps throughout the day, most people probably don’t remember a thing. You’re the only one worried about it.

November

If you were born in November, you lean more toward pessimism than optimism. Since you’re always worried that something horrible is going to go wrong, it’s hard for you to fall asleep without thinking through every potential scenario. After all, you want to be prepared for whatever you’re about to face. You want to think through every single angle so you aren’t caught by surprise. But you need to remember, life is unpredictable. You won’t always be prepared, even if you take all the proper steps. Sometimes, you just have to let things happen and deal with them as they come.

September

If you were born in September, you’re a perfectionist. You aren’t happy with yourself, even when you’ve gone above and beyond that day, because you always feel like you could have done more. You put way too much pressure on yourself to be perfect, which is why you stay up at night, thinking about all the things you could have done differently. But you need to remember, perfection is impossible to reach. You need to start appreciating everything you’ve done right instead of zoning in on the super small things you could have done better. Stop being so hard on yourself because you deserve so much more credit than you’ve been giving yourself.

January

If you were born in January, you have an active imagination. Even if everything in your world is going well, you are going to daydream about everything falling apart. You are going to torture yourself by thinking through the worst-case scenarios. Plus, you are going to think far into the future and deep into the past because you struggle to enjoy the current moment that you’re in. You’re always worried about another time and place instead of focusing on the here and now. But you need to remember, you can’t fix problems that don’t exist yet. You need to focus on today. Focus on what you’re experiencing right now, not what you might experience a few weeks or months or years from now.

Aquarius

Aquarius, you know exactly who you are and you aren’t going to apologize for it. You couldn’t care less about fitting in with the crowd and being accepted by others because you would rather stay true to yourself. You would rather be the real you. You are one of the most authentic signs in the zodiac because you know what you want and you chase after it. You know what you like and you openly admit it. You aren’t going to play pretend in order to come across as cooler or more interesting. You are as honest and transparent as they come. What others see is what they get.

Taurus

Taurus, you are as stubborn as they come. Although this can be a negative at times, it’s also the reason why you are so authentic. You couldn’t care less what others want from you. You aren’t going to change yourself to please them. You aren’t going to do something that makes you uncomfortable in order to be liked more. You are going to do what you want to do in any given situation. You refuse to change yourself — and if someone else expects you to change, that’s a sign that they don’t deserve you. You know who you are, and although you have had your fair share of insecurities in the past, you like who you are too. You don’t want to live your life differently. You are living it exactly the way that you want to and you don’t care who approves.

Aries

Aries, you care about other people’s opinions more than you would ever admit, but you never act like it. You are unapologetically yourself because you wouldn’t be comfortable playing pretend. You are the most authentic version of yourself because you love yourself. You know the real you is more than enough. Besides, you are extremely blunt, so it’s hard for you to hold back how you really feel. You aren’t the type of person who can sit there and lie about your thoughts and opinions. And you don’t see why you would want to do something like that. You would rather be real, even if it means less people are going to like you in the end. After all, you can’t please everyone. Why try?

Capricorn

Capricorn, you aren’t trying to impress anyone other than the person in the mirror. Although you would love the rest of the world to see you as successful and respect you, you understand that you can’t control their perspective. You can’t impress everyone, even when you’re doing everything right, because there will always be someone unhappy with you. You have such a strong sense of self because you aren’t setting out to please anyone other than yourself. You are making the decisions that you want to make instead of choosing what you think others want you to choose. You are living for yourself, not for them.

Your new life chapter comes in the form of a person, Leo. There is someone you will cross paths with who could really use a person like you right at this very moment. You’re no stranger to a pet project, but you need to keep your eyes open. This person won’t be comfortable just walking up and approaching you. You may appear intimidating, inaccessible, or simply be an unknown stranger. But there is some connection between you two and the timing this year as spring approaches. You will feel a calling to help nurture this person in some way that you are specifically positioned to do. They may be in need of a friend, a mentor, a companion, someone who makes them feel seen and less alone. Be open to the opportunity to make a difference instead of so engrossed in your usual haunts and cronies. The seed you plant and nurture this month has the potential to become a tree you lean on in the future.

VIRGO (8/23 – 9/22)

Virgo, your new life chapter is about hard work. That may not feel very new to you at all, but it’s the endeavor in question that represents a clear break from the past. Whatever door recently closed for you, your go-getter attitude has already opened a new one, and this chapter is about giving whatever was behind it your full commitment. If you recently ended a relationship, it’s time to fully embrace singledom for an extended period of time. If you just left a job, allow yourself time to find a move that feels like a true fit or invest in that independent venture you’ve always dreamed of. If you’ve been in need of a new hobby, set your sights on something that is a true challenge. Whatever the particulars, the theme here is that this chapter will be long, and it will be hard. Just know that everything that’s come before has prepared you for this moment, and embrace the opportunity as a chance to prove to yourself exactly what you’re made of.

TAURUS (4/20 – 5/20)

Your new life chapter is one of observation and learning from others. Sometimes you feel so much pressure to do, to be, to change that you jump on any bandwagon as long as it’s moving, without giving much thought as to whether you want to end up where it’s headed. This May you will start looking around you for mentors, examples, and points of reference when it comes to figuring out exactly what it is you want from life. You may look towards couples with and without children to get a better feel for whether you want to be a parent one day. You may admire acquaintances who made career pivots during the economic shifts that came along with the pandemic. You may simply eavesdrop on the other patrons frequenting your favorite café and overhear a point of view that brings new clarity into your own life. The point of this chapter is not to compare or contrast yourself with others but to open your mind to the vast realm of possibilities you have the opportunity to steer your life towards with intention and purpose.

CAPRICORN (12/22 – 1/19)

Oh, Capricorn, you are about to get hit by a metaphorical bus in this next life chapter. I could pretend to feel sorry for you, but I know your world is going to get rocked in exactly the way it needs right now. You are going to fall head over heels in love, and it will take you by complete surprise. There’s no guarantee the object of your affection will be another person, although that is well within the realm of possibility. It could be a place, a new job, a hobby, or something as simple as a music album, but whatever it is is going to fill your life with a revitalizing energy. You will derive a newfound confidence from the experience, one that provides you with a positive outlook on life and your ability to tackle the obstacles before you. Sometimes all you need is something or someone to pour your energy into to be reminded how much happiness can be found in the simplicity of making an effort. This chapter is about enjoying every second of that energy well spent.

A December girlfriend is one of the most generous and loyal partners you’ll ever be with. She values honesty above all else, which makes you feel like she is so easy to trust and to be vulnerable with. And not only is she loving and giving, but she has a great sense of humor and can be incredibly light and goofy

October

An October girlfriend has an absolutely contagious warmth about her. Making friends is practically effortlessly for her, and she’s never short of affection or tenderness. And you’ll never get bored of talking to her, because a conversation with her can end up being funny, deep, smart, and silly all at the same time.

July

A July girlfriend has an irresistible spark about her. She’s open and friendly, and making others feel loved and cared about is a huge priority for her. She’s not one to actively pursue a relationship, but when she finds herself in love with someone, she’s incredibly honest, warm, and thoughtful.

June

A June girlfriend is full of compassion, and she’ll help you open up emotionally more than you ever have with anyone else. She’s very easy to talk to – both lighthearted and deep without ever being judgmental – and will always be able to pick up on how you’re feeling without you even having to say anything.

March

A March girlfriend is a very caring and affectionate partner. She’s brimming over with kindness and will always do everything in her power to cheer you up when she can sense that you’re having a hard time. She can be temperamental when she’s under a lot of stress, but otherwise, she’s always working to maintain a peaceful and calming presence for herself (and for others).

January

A January girlfriend is full of drive and ambition, which can sometimes be great when it comes to her relationships and at other times make things way more complicated. She’ll be a very loyal and perceptive partner, and when she wants to make the relationship work, she’ll absolutely give it her all. But when she’s somewhat uncertain and hesitant about what she’s looking for out of the relationship, she may take that anxiety and panic and channel all of her energy into her work or her outside passions in order to avoid the difficult conversations with you.

November

A November girlfriend, when you really get close to her, can be a very loving and rock-solid partner. However, she can also be very closed-off, detached, and stoic out of self-preservation – especially when she doesn’t feel fully emotionally invested or protected. She’s a very active and hardworking person, so if she’s not fully confident in the relationship and in your feelings or her own feelings, she may channel that energy into other projects and passionsin order to keep her heart safe.

May

A May girlfriend is no-doubt a very strong, supportive, and inspiring partner. She’s also very motivated and incredibly hardworking. The challenge in being her partner comes from her tendency to be quick to anger – if you disagree on something or get in a fight, she struggles to talk it out calmly and will have a hard time articulating what’s bothering her without letting her anger get in the way.

August

An August girlfriend can be a very romantic and affectionate partner. She’s also very inspiring, due to her natural gift for leadership and magnetism. What makes her a risky partner is that she’s all or nothing – when the relationship is going great, cool. But when it’s not all hearts and roses, she frequently panics and runs away from the problem instead of dealing with it and trusting your bond enough to work through it.

February

A February girlfriend is certainly exciting to be around – a free spirit with a contagious energy. However, she can be very stubborn, especially about love and about admitting when she has feelings for someone. When it comes to showing her love for you, she’s very insecure and hesitant, and always needs you to be the one putting yourself out there first.

September

A September girlfriend is very hard-working and confident in her own individual life, but it can be challenging to be her partner. Although she can be sympathetic one minute, she also drifts into a bad habit of being frequently critical and vocal about your shortcomings while also refusing to admit when she’s at fault in any way.

April

An April girlfriend has a strong personality and can be a very fun friend. But when you’re the one in a romantic relationship with her 24/7, it feels a little different. Although there are plenty of positive aspects of her strong personality, it can also get aggressive to the point where it’s her way or the highway. She’s not good at compromising, and is of the mindset that it’s her first and you second – never an even, 50-50 relationship.

These are the toxic traits each zodiac sign is prone to:

Aries – Impatience.

Remember, you are a human being, not a human-doing. Slow down a little, still your mind. I know that’s hard because you are bursting with energy- the constant need to do causes you to be too impatient and you risk missing out on good opportunities. You obviously can’t shut off that revved-up engine that drives you, but practice slowing down daily. Maybe you take a leisurely walk or practice meditating for even a few minutes every day. Enjoy the present moment instead of racing to the next stop.

Taurus – Anger.

Your anger usually rests just beneath the surface at a steady simmer… but when things get off track in your life or you feel emotionally destabilized, you’re a loose canon and your anger can come bursting out with roaring intensity leaving destruction in its wake. Focus on managing your mood and staying in a stable place otherwise, you can cause irreparable harm to those around you.

Gemini- Untrustworthy.

Your flighty and indecisive nature makes it hard for people to truly trust you… it’s hard to know if you’ll show up if you genuinely do want to commit, if your feelings are real … and that’s because you don’t always know yourself. You are flexible, which is. strength, but when left unchecked your flexibility comes across as a lack of stability. You are also notoriously two-faced making it difficult to anyone to really trust you and your intentions. Focus on practicing empathy and putting yourself in other people’s shoes more often so you see how your behavior can sometimes hurt others.

Cancer – Holding grudges.

Haven’t you heard holding a grudge is letting someone live rent-free in your head? Your sensitivity is your strength but can also be a weakness, you may forgive but you never forget and you carry this pain with you through life and it has a detrimental effect on you and your relationships. Practice compassion and forgiveness so you don’t get consumed with the anger inside you.

Leo – Vain.

When you’re in a good place, you have a healthy dose of self-esteem. You want to be seen and admired and know you are worth admiration. But when you lose that sense of worth, you become excessively dependent on others for validation and a sense of self and this is toxic and exhausting for those in your orbit. It causes you to interact with others as objects, they are just a means to feel good about yourself. It’s ok to crave compliments and attention, but it’s important to work on building up your sense of worth from within. This will also help you form deeper, more meaningful connections.

Virgo – Judgemental.

You’re too hard on people, but really it’s because you’re too hard on yourself. You don’t usually have bad intentions, but it makes people on the receiving end feel terrible because no one likes to be picked apart. When you’re in a good place, you are usually more tactful with your feedback of others but when you’re not in a good place… you can be cruel and hurtful. It’s all just a reflection of how you feel about yourself. Stop being so hard on yourself and expecting perfection from yourself and others.

Libra – Self-absorbed.

You are fascinating and no one is more charming than you so people can’t help but be magnetized by you, but sometimes you risk being a little too into yourself.  When things don’t go your way it can feel like the world is ending. You also get swept away in your own experience, you sometimes fall in love with the idea of love more than the actual person which can leave a trail of broken hearts in your wake.

Scorpio – Vengeful.

You can be loyal to a fault to those closest to you, but if someone betrays you… they better watch their back! You don’t take being wronged lightly and will go to whatever lengths to exact your revenge. Sometimes your wrath isn’t warranted and stems from your insecurities and feeling jealous of others. Work on getting to a healthy place internally so you don’t feel a need to cut others down.

Sagittarius – Guarded.

While you are fun and the life of the party, you also guard your heart a little too closely. You love the idea of love but it also terrifies you so you keep it at a distance, you keep going and going from one destination to the next afraid of being tied down but also afraid of not being tied down. You are a fearless explorer, so channel some of that into your emotional life and be more fearless about letting your guard down and showing vulnerability.

Capricorn – Exploitive.

You are the most driven of all the signs, when you put your mind to something you go for it with all you have. But your need to succeed can cause you to use other people as objects, as pawns needed to get where you want to go. Don’t let your drive strip you of your humanity.

Aquarius – Callous.

Your aloofness is part of your charm, it makes others curious about you, but if you go too far with it, you just won’t be able to form any genuine connections and this will cause you to feel like even more of an outcast than you already do. Practice empathizing with those around you, let them in, let yourself feel a little bit.

Pisces – Playing the victim.

You are highly sensitive and struggle to manage your emotions. When things go wrong, you can’t help but sometimes sensationalize things and feel like you are the victim… and no one likes a perpetual victim. Try to channel your inner warrior instead so you don’t feel so jaded by the world.

As a firstborn child, they have always had a strong sense of responsibility and leadership. This innate drive for success may delay their search for a soulmate, as they first need to establish a strong foundation in their career and personal life. The likely age to meet their soulmate is between 33 and 37, when they have gained experience and wisdom to make thoughtful choices in your relationships.

Middle Child

Middle children have a unique position in the family, as they’re often the peacemakers and negotiators. Their ability to empathize and adapt makes them excellent partners. For middle children, the soulmate search may be filled with a series of meaningful relationships, ultimately leading them to their true love. The most likely age for middle children to meet their soulmate is between 32 and 36, when they’ve discovered a balance between their personal and relationship needs.

Youngest

The youngest siblings often have a carefree, adventurous spirit that makes them open to new experiences, including love. They’re likely to meet their soulmates when they’re least expecting it, often during a period of personal exploration and growth. For last-borns, the ideal age to meet their soulmate ranges from 20 to 25, as they’re more willing to embrace spontaneity and take risks in love.

Only Child

Only children, accustomed to solitude and independence, may take longer to find their soulmate, as they carefully evaluate their relationships. The ideal age for only children to find their soulmate is between 28 and 32, when they have reached a level of emotional maturity that allows them to foster a deep and lasting connection.

Twins

Twins share a unique bond, which can influence their romantic lives in intriguing ways. Identical twins may feel a strong connection to their sibling, seeking a partner who complements their twin’s personality. Non-identical twins, on the other hand, may be attracted to partners who offer a sense of individuality and contrast. The ideal age for twins to meet their soulmate is between 23 and 28, as they navigate the balance between their close sibling relationship and their desire for a romantic partner.

When the planet of genuine connection crashes into the planet of daydreaming and deeper vision — sparks start to fly, and romance runs high. Your wishes when it comes to love, and what your heart desires, are being heard. Buckle up! 

Aries

Aries, who will catch your attention on Valentine’s Day? A secret admirer may finally reveal their feelings as the conjunction between Venus and Neptune creates a tempting romantic atmosphere. You may notice that your crush or partner is paying more attention to you than usual, and you may find yourself imagining what loving gesture they might have up their sleeve. The celestial energy of the fiery moon in Sagittarius will embolden your hope when it comes to your love life, and you may be inclined to take a leap of faith. If you feel ready to follow your heart, consider Valentine’s Day to be the perfect time to express your true feelings to the person who has caught your eye. Tell them how much they mean to you when the moon forms a favorable aspect with Mercury in Aquarius — the Universe has your back when it comes to this expression, and you may find yourself falling deeper in love with your forever. 

Taurus

Valentine’s Day will bring you and your partner closer together, Taurus, and there will be a natural alignment between you and your soulmate as Venus dances with dreamy Neptune. The unconditional love and friendship created by this conjunction will bring a sense of deep acceptance in your love life. You may find yourself daydreaming about where your relationship will lead in the future, and you will feel encouraged to be more open when it comes to discussing your heartfelt hopes with the person who is the object of your affection. With that being said, your desire for emotional intimacy will deepen as the day progresses, and you may feel ready to take a leap of faith by allowing your partner into your inner world while the moon is in adventurous Sagittarius. Take advantage of this energy to get to know your partner better by being open and honest with them — this energy is all about connection, Taurus. It’s time to dive.

Gemini

Valentine’s Day may have you thinking about the future of your love life, Gemini. You tend to live in the moment rather than planning for what is coming your way, but on this day you may find yourself daydreaming about commitment, marriage and more due to Venus’ alignment with dreamy Neptune. This conjunction will encourage you to have a more romantic and hopeful approach to love and it is encouraging you to connect yourself to what you want to create and feel with your soulmate in the coming years. You may feel driven to take a leap of faith while the moon is in adventurous Sagittarius, the opposite sign to your own. This is not the time to hesitate, Gemini! The bold energy of the moon will make you eager for love, so don’t be afraid to let your crush or partner know how you truly feel, as the moon forms a favorable aspect with Jupiter in Aries. This could be your cosmic cue to take a special friendship to the next level.

Cancer

Valentine’s Day can be a special day for you, Cancer. As Venus aligns with dreamy Neptune, it might be a good time to reflect on what you believe in when it comes to love. Love isn’t always easy, but this alignment will remind you to keep your chin up and restore your faith in your journey. Embrace the positive and hopeful energy of this transit by finding moments of magic throughout the day, as the moon is in exuberant Sagittarius. This energy is illuminating your work sector, so you could show your work wife or work hubby a little love by surprising them with their favorite coffee or by handing out Valentine’s cards to your coworkers. Later on, prioritize your self-care by enjoying a nice bottle of wine, watching your favorite romantic movie, and pampering yourself.

Leo

Valentine’s Day will be an intimate experience for you, Leo, as Venus aligns with intuitive Neptune. This alignment will make it natural for you to share your body, mind, and soul with your lover. As the conjunction builds throughout the day, you may feel like your desire for love transcends beyond the ordinary. Embrace your intuition and go deeper than ever before with your partner. The moon in steamy Sagittarius will also add a playful and sensual energy to the moment. With that being said, you may feel more adventurous and want to spend the day in bed with your object of desire, as the fiery moon amplifies passion. Use this opportunity to enhance your intimate bond, Leo. It’s time to turn up the heat!

Virgo

Valentine’s Day can be an opportunity for you to reflect on what type of commitment you desire in your love life, Virgo. The conjunction of Venus and Neptune on this day will bring your attention to the possibilities that could manifest in your relationship. Instead of focusing on the details, allow yourself to imagine and visualize the kind of love you want to experience. Whatever you think in your mind, you can have in your life, Virgo. It is okay to ask for what you desire. If you have already met your soulmate, it’s important to take the pressure off of yourself when it comes to Valentine’s day. You’re being encouraged to celebrate at home with a cozy, intimate dinner followed by a bubble bath with your partner. The simple forms of connection are always the strongest — don’t ever forget that. 

Libra

Valentine’s Day will bring an extra touch of magic to your love life, Libra, as Venus aligns with dreamy Neptune. This transit will amplify romantic energy and inspire you to take a leap of faith in your relationships. The bold energy of the moon in Sagittarius will give you the courage to speak up and express your feelings, potentially leading to new beginnings in partnership and commitment. Don’t hold back, let your crush or lover know how you truly feel.

Scorpio

Scorpio, you’re one of the lucky zodiac signs who will be struck by Cupid’s arrow on Valentines Day, due to the fiery conjunction between romantic Venus and dreamy Neptune. This will bring you closer to your heart’s desires. Show your romantic side by surprising your soulmate with a special date, and don’t be afraid to go all out with traditional Valentine’s Day gestures such as red roses and champagne. The presence of a warm Sagittarius moon serves as a reminder for you to have confidence in your romantic endeavors and to take a leap of faith, even if it may be scary. During your special date with your partner, take advantage of the opportunity to deepen your connection by asking thought-provoking questions and increasing emotional intimacy. Trust that this effort will ultimately be worthwhile — there’s beauty in vulnerability, Scorpio. It’s time to open up.

Sagittarius

Valentine’s Day may be a more of a low-key affair for you, Sagittarius. This is due to the energy Venus and Neptune create together when they start their dance within introverted Pisces. Instead of feeling the need to be on the move with your partner, you may find that an easygoing and intimate day together is actually what you desire the most. This can be a great time to discuss your dreams for a home and family with the person you share a deep and rooted connection with. You’re not often the kind of person to talk about the vision you hold for your future, especially when it comes to romantic relationships, but you are being encouraged to open your heart to someone who genuinely sees it clearly, Sagittarius. Valentine’s Day can be a breakthrough for you when it comes to your vulnerability. Don’t try to escape these feelings — they are showing up in your energy for a reason. 

Capricorn

As a Capricorn, on Valentine’s Day you may find yourself feeling more open and vulnerable with someone you feel a deeper connection with. This is due to the fact that  Venus and Neptune  are dancing around in Pisces, which will bring a softer, more romantic energy into your atmosphere. You may want to take the opportunity to express your feelings in a creative way, such as writing a poem on a Valentine’s card. The bold energy of the moon in Sagittarius is also  going to encourage you or someone in your life to take a risk and to make a bold move in their romantic desires. With the moon sextiling Mercury in Aquarius, you may be inspired to come up with a unique and unforgettable Valentine’s Day surprise for your crush, or to take a leap of faith elsewhere. Either way — prepare for romance, Capricorn. It’s about time! 

Aquarius

Aquarius, Valentine’s Day may be the perfect time for you to take the next step with someone you’re interested in, as Venus and Neptune align in a way that enhances the romantic vibe in your atmosphere and gives you more confidence when it comes to your heart’s desires. With the moon in exuberant Sagittarius, consider doing something extraordinary to make your intentions clear with the person who has caught your eyes. However, to avoid feeling disorganized or anxious, plan ahead and be authentic in your expression of love. Trust your instincts and go with what feels natural — this way you can put yourself out there confidently. Remember that you are enough, as you are. You don’t need to water yourself down or do something that is out of character in order to be chosen or to have your feelings reciprocated. Come as you are, Aquarius. It’s going to be beautiful.

Pisces

Pisces, with Venus and Neptune aligning in your sign, you may find yourself feeling more confident and positive about your love life. You are being encouraged by the Universe to use this opportunity to be more open about your relationships or to put yourself out there if you are single. With the moon in Sagittarius, you may be in the spotlight on Valentine’s Day, making it a perfect time to share your love life on social media, or try your hand at dating apps and social events. Take advantage of this cosmic attention, as it may attract new romantic opportunities. This is your time to shine, Pisces. Don’t let anything get in your way of attracting what you genuinely want to feel in this world.

This week, don’t underestimate your own abilities. You are capable of achieving far more than you think, so don’t hold back out of fear of failure. Even if you don’t see the results you want, you’ll be proud of yourself for giving it a shot.

Taurus

This week, spend more time with your own thoughts. Pause for a second and give yourself the chance to really think things through instead of rushing from one moment to the next without asking yourself how you’re doing or what you want.

Gemini

This week, protect your peace. Don’t waste time arguing with people who are never going to see the situation from your point of view. Don’t listen to their ramblings when they aren’t going to give you the same respect and hear you out. Just walk away.

Cancer

This week, stop sweeping your problems under the rug. Confront whatever is bothering you. Admit that there is a problem because that’s the first step toward finding a solution. Even though you might feel uncomfortable causing a fuss, you deserve to have your feelings heard.

Leo

This week, give yourself grace. When you mess up, try your hardest to accept that whatever happened is over and done instead of dwelling on it and beating yourself up over it. Everyone else makes mistakes too, even though you might not see them. You’re not alone in this.

Virgo

This week, allow yourself to sit in the discomfort. If something is bothering you, don’t push the emotion away. Take some time to ask yourself why this is bothering you, what it could mean, and what you could do to change the situation.

Libra

This week, stop trying so hard to impress the people around you. Even though society has conditioned you to care about validation, it doesn’t matter if others are proud of what you’ve accomplished. It matters whether you’re proud, whether you’re living a life that genuinely makes you happy.

Scorpio

This week, sneak some treats. This might mean letting yourself sleep an hour later than usual or setting aside time to binge-watch a series that you’ve been excited to see. Either way, do something nice for yourself. Something fun and relaxing.

Sagittarius

This week, be selective with how you spend your time and who you’re spending it on. You don’t want to dedicate too much effort to someone that isn’t doing the same for you. You don’t want the relationship to become completely one-sided.

Capricorn

This week, celebrate loudly and proudly. Don’t hold back your excitement about the good things that are going on in your life. Don’t be too modest. You’re allowed to brag a little. You’re allowed to be proud of yourself.

Aquarius

This week, accept that you’re going to take steps back sometimes. But that doesn’t mean all your progress was lost. That doesn’t mean you’re on a downward trend. All it means is that you had a bad time. Remember, progress isn’t linear.

Pisces

This week, be gentle with yourself. Don’t push yourself too hard. Don’t rush yourself to move at an impossible pace. Accept that you’re going to get there when you get there. Stressing yourself out isn’t going to help in any way.

This week, give yourself some more credit than usual. You’ve been working your butt off but you haven’t stopped to celebrate or bask in your own accomplishments. You’re doing better than you think, so make sure you take some time this week to mull over how well you’ve done.

Taurus

This week, make sure you’re making decisions based on what you want, not what the rest of the world expects from you. Even though you want to please your partner and parents and friends, they don’t actually know what’s best for you. Only you get to make that decision for yourself.

Gemini

This week, sit down and set goals for yourself. Instead of doing whatever feels right in the moment, develop more of a routine so you can squeeze everything you want into the week. In the long run, it’ll cause less stress when you have more of a game plan.

Cancer

This week, don’t let love distract you from your other goals. Remember that a relationship isn’t everything. You should be putting effort into other areas of your world too, like your career and your hobbies. Don’t forget about everything else that matters to you because you’re so swept up in romance.

Leo

This week, stop trying to control everything and everyone around you. Accept that you don’t have total control over others, that you aren’t always the one in charge, the one responsible for solving problems. Accepting what you cannot change will do wonders for your stress levels.

Virgo

This week, speak your love into the universe. Tell the people you care about how much they mean to you. It doesn’t matter if this is a crush or a family member or friend. Whoever it is, just make sure they know that you care. Don’t expect them to know instinctively.

Libra

This week, stand your ground. If you have an opinion, you’re allowed to share it. If you have a boundary, you’re allowed to enforce it. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Don’t let them try to silence you.

Scorpio

This week, pay attention to your surroundings. Don’t get so lost in your own world that you fail to see what’s right in front of your face. Examine the people and places around you. Stay present in the moment. Stay mindful.

Sagittarius

This week, give yourself permission to cry. Release the emotions that have been building up inside. There’s nothing weak about shedding a tear. It’s healthier to let your emotions out than to keep them stuffed inside.

Capricorn

This week, point out problems instead of pretending everything is fine. If you want to strengthen relationships and friendships, you need to be honest with each other. You need to admit when something isn’t working. If you stay quiet, then the problem will only snowball.

Aquarius

This week, try to set aside some private, quality time with your favorite person. Get away somewhere where it’s only the two of you, where you aren’t distracted by work or by other people.

Pisces

This week, put your phone down. Instead of texting back and forth for hours, see if you can meet up in person. Have some fun face-to-face.

You grew out of your old self and found a new one and this wasn’t part of the plan. Maybe it takes what you thought your future was and paints it in shades of blue. The color of depth. The color of stability. The color of the sky when you realized that you’re going to survive every mistake you’ve ever made, even the ones that brought you to your knees. Is it really so bad to look forward and see possibility rather than safety? Be comfortable with uncertainty. It will free you more than you realize.

TAURUS

What’s changed: your environment, or you? The passage of time has certainly taken a toll on your heart, kneading it between its fingers into something malleable and shapeless. But it’s impossible to ignore that the landscape of your body has gone through its own transformations as well, leaving you stuck in the middle of a battlefield. It isn’t too late for you to redefine your parameters, or find solitude in the aspects of your identity that confuse you. It’s not all supposed to make sense, yet.

GEMINI

Asking for help isn’t something you were ever taught and I know it’s something you struggle with from time to time. So on the nights you’re unable to formulate that question, the nights where you’re having trouble finding somewhere to rest, remember that passion will bring you home to yourself. Reignite the spark that once kept you motivated and put it next to your bed as a reminder of everything you will eventually accomplish. It’ll light the way for your voice when you feel ready to speak.

CANCER

Where do you keep your love? In your back pocket? In the bedroom? In the sound that your heart makes whenever they walk into the room? Sometimes it can be hard to pinpoint where exactly we hold our more precious emotions, but it’s more important than ever to recognize their origin. If you’re to move forward from the past, completely, then it’s necessary to understand why you exist and feel the way you do. Or, at least come to terms with the not knowing. Love will be tender if you are tender with it.

LEO

When does the self-imposed pressure end? When you’re drained of all energy? Breaking yourself to fit into an unhealthy routine? Life is not a set of deadlines that you have to follow in order to succeed, and you’ll drive yourself directly into a wall if you live your life by the calendar without any room for error or movement. Embrace your limits without judging their shapes. Your productivity does not have to be monumental in order to be relevant or good. Time will be there for you, there’s no reason to put it on a leash.

VIRGO

Say goodbye. Say goodbye in whatever way you know how. With a booming voice or a soft whisper. With every bone in your body quaking. Whether it’s a person, an era of your life, a place — you’ll know when the time comes. Don’t let this departure be a moment you replay over and over in your head until it’s unwatchable. You will regret not being honest about how you feel more than you’ll regret the consequences of your words. Don’t look in the rearview mirror. Nothing new is waiting behind you.

LIBRA

You’re sitting on a wealth of information and resources and creativity and beauty and when you forget to look down, you forget that it’s there. Commit this to memory: you have the power to give yourself everything you want. There are obstacles, of course, and there will be failures, but that’s to be expected with any journey. When you feel unsure and your confidence is wavering, look at your feet. Look at what has carried you so far already. Look at everything you’ve planted, sprouting up around you.

SCORPIO

Sacrificing your comfort in order to move forward isn’t actually moving forward. It’s draping a tablecloth over some scratches and calling it harmless decoration. You shouldn’t have to trade well-being for success, and if anybody ever makes you feel otherwise recognize that as a red flag. There is a universe where it’s possible to be happy and healthy and this is it, you’re living in it. Don’t be fooled by the bright lights and loud noises within your body. You are still creating a place where things can grow.

SAGITTARIUS

If joy is a part of you then let it be the biggest part. Let it consume the sections of you that were torn, ragged and bruised, let it burn away the memories you’d rather not remember. You don’t owe anything to those that left you for dead. Celebrating your life is now an act of rebellion, a song that deserves to be shouted into the darkness that once felt all-encompassing and numbing. So sing. Don’t feel that you need to mask your happiness. Being vocal about your triumphs is necessary, and good.

CAPRICORN

Where does work end and your happiness begin? And why do you so often confuse the two? The more time you spend sharpening yourself into a vehicle of labor is less time spent tapping into the part of your brain that enjoys being creative, spontaneous, and free. Don’t let the fear of falling behind stop you from cultivating your interests and spending time with people that adore you. Make time for yourself, and take care of your body.

AQUARIUS

Figuring out which direction is the right one has been a challenge lately. When there are so many things pulling you in a million different ways, every way you turn feels like a mistake. Like somebody is going to get hurt. Like you’re going to do something irreversible and embarrassing. You don’t need a compass to find your inner North. Trust your instincts whenever you find yourself at a crossroads. You know more than you think you do about making tough decisions.

PISCES

If you can embrace the person you were five years ago, why not the person you were five minutes ago? Despite the alterations you’ve made to yourself, from physical attributes to emotional development, your sense of identity has remained strong throughout your life. You, finally, know who you are…even on the days you aren’t quite sure of anything else. So be unapologetic during your periods of transition, and know you’ll blossom into somebody you’re proud to be. Have faith in your future selves.